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Sex Talk: Lets Get To The Bottom Of It

Sexual Dysfunction in Men and Women


  • Inhibited sexual desire (this involves a lack of sexual desire or interest in sex)

  • Inability to become aroused

  • Lack of orgasm

  • Painful intercourse

The estimated rates for the various sexual disorders in 18-49 years old women:

  • 30% to 32% lacked interest in sex

  • 18% to 21% had lubrication difficulties

  • 22% to 28% could not achieve orgasm

  • 13% to 21% experienced pain during intercourse

The most common problems men face with sexual dysfunction are troubles with ejaculation, getting and keeping an erection, and reduced sexual desire.

Problems with ejaculation are: Premature ejaculation (PE), ejaculation that occurs before or too soon after penetration.


  • Erectile Dysfunction (ED)

  • Premature Ejaculation (PME)

  • Decreased desire

  • Inability to achieve orgasm

The Asian studies reported the prevalence of Erectile Dysfunction at 7%–15% rate of ED for ages 40–49 years and 39%–49% for ages 60–70 years.

Persistent, recurrent problems with sexual response, desire, orgasm or pain that distress you or strain your relationship with your partner are known medically as sexual dysfunction.

Causes of Sexual Dysfunction

Physical: Any number of medical conditions, including cancer, kidney failure, multiple sclerosis, heart disease and bladder problems, can lead to sexual dysfunction

Hormonal: Lower estrogen levels after menopause may lead to changes in your genital tissues and sexual responsiveness

Psychological and social: Psychological factors are responsible for about 10%-20% of all cases of erectile dysfunction(ED). This can lead to “performance anxiety,” or a fear of sexual failure, and consistently lead to ED.

Tests (Diagnosis) of Sexual Dysfunction

This might include careful examination of your penis and testicles and checking your nerves for sensation.

During the exam, your doctor checks for physical changes that affect your sexual enjoyment, such as thinning of your genital tissues, decreased skin elasticity, scarring or pain.

Blood tests:  A sample of your blood might be sent to a lab to check for signs of heart disease, diabetes, low testosterone levels and other health conditions.

Lifestyle Changes to Better Sexual Health

A study published in May 2014 in The Journal of Sexual Medicine found that erectile dysfunction can be reversed in men by leading a healthy lifestyle, such as exercise, weight loss, a varied diet, and good sleep.


  • Stay active

  • Eat fruits and vegetables

  • Eat meats and other foods

  • Reduce stress

  • Kick bad habits

  • Get some sun

  • Masturbate to improve longevity

  • Pay attention to your partner

Homeopathy medicine for the rescue

TIP!  The problem of too early ejaculation in coitus should be discussed with the partner openly. Apart from the use of medicines, use of condom can delay ejaculation in some cases. Slowing of movements also helps to an extent. Another method is to have sexual intercourse, a second time, when ejaculation will take longer.

Yohimbinum: Stimulates sexual desire in both the sexes. Use mother tincture(Q), 10-20 drops in 1/2 cup of warm water, thrice daily.

Tribulus Ter: Sexual weakness and partial impotence due to over-indulgence and advancing age. Corrects the bad effects of masturbation and spermatorrhea. Very near specific for early ejaculation. Use mother tincture(Q), 10-20 drops in 1/2 cup of warm water, twice a day.

Acidum Phos: Sexual power deficient. Spermatorrhea. Parts relax during an embrace. Glans penis swollen. Semen is discharged shortly after or even before an erection occurs. Use mother tincture(Q), 10 drops in 1/2 cup of warm water, thrice daily.

Agnus Castus: Lowered sexual vitality resulting in mental depression. Lacks courage for sexual act. Use mother tincture(Q), 10 drops in 1/2 cup of warm water, thrice daily.

Avena Sativa: Sexual weakness due to too much indulgence spermatorrhoea or mere nervousness. Use mother tincture(200C), 20 drops a dose in hot water, thrice daily.

Conium Mac: Male has a weak organ but has intense desire and enormous thoughts but is unable to perform. He ejaculates at the very thought of a woman. The erection is weak, lasts for a short time or the penis relaxes during the act of embrace. This condition can occur in both sexes as result of too frequent indulgence or excessive abstaining. It is a good remedy for old bachelors and old maids. Man’s eyes wonder as vitality declines, cannot perform without considerable help from the partner. Use dilution(200C), 10 pills, thrice daily.

Lycopodium: A man has lived a life of luxury and excesses. Has been unfaithful to several ladies and his younger days but now in his advanced age, has a weak, thin semen and ejaculates earlier than his sex partner causing him embarrassment. Use dilution(200C), 10 pills, one dose a day.

Nuphar Lut: Complete absence of erection and desire. Penis is retracted and scrotum is relaxed. Unable to effect coitus.  Use mother tincture(Q) mixed with olive oil and rub on the penis to make it strong.

Onosmodium: Sexual weakness in both sexes. Depressed sexual life in women, sexual desire completely destroyed in women and diminished in men. Use dilution(200C), 10 pills, thrice daily.

Orchitinum (Testosterone): Sexual weakness in females after ovariectomy or senile sexual weakness in both sexes. This testicular hormone promotes and stimulates normal sexual behaviour and erections by stimulating blood flow to the penis. Use in dilution(30C), 10 pills, thrice daily.

Selenium Met: Increased desire with decreased performance. Sexual weakness due to thin, weak semen without smell.  The dribbling of semen involuntarily. Irritability after sexual intercourse. Penis relaxes during intercourse. Desire of sex is gone. Use dilution(200C), 10 pills, thrice daily.

Always check with your homeopathic doctor before taking any medicine


Sexual dysfunction is a common problem. It is possible to pinpoint the cause of sexual dysfunction by conducting the right tests. Often, sexual dysfunction is caused by several factors.

Nowadays, it is almost always possible to cure sexual dysfunction.

The treatment option chosen will depend mostly on the root of the problem. Your homeopathy doctor will help you determine the best solution for you. And just remember, you are not alone!

Should you still have questions after reading this blog post, do not hesitate to consult a doctor. Talk about it. Talking is the first step towards getting better.

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